Building The Ideal Player/Becoming A Role Model:

Introduce topic: Building the Ideal Player/Becoming a Role Model

Merch Idea: We'll want to design "Role Model In Training" t-shirts: 



Solid definition:  A role model is a person you look up to and admire. They can be someone who has achieved great things, or someone who is just good at living their life in a way that you aspire to. Role models provide a template for success and can help people set and achieve ambitious goals, often modelling the type of behavior required to reach their goal,

Use the term role model in a tennis sentence: Roger Federer is a great role model for aspiring tennis players due to his exceptional skills, sportsmanship, and dedication to the sport.

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                                                FIRST BALL TO LAST 10 question test: 

 

 

SCALE:  1) Never..2) Rarely  3) Sometimes  4) Often 5) Always.....There are no right answers: Just measuring where you are at now as to where you will be after we do the work to chart your progress.

1. How often do you engage in activities that promote sportsmanship and fair play in your tennis matches?

2. How often do you demonstrate leadership qualities on and off the tennis court to become a role model for others?

3. How often do you participate in community service or volunteer work related to tennis to inspire others?

4. How often do you engage in positive and respectful communication with your fellow tennis players to set an example?

5. How often do you make an effort to mentor and support younger or less experienced tennis players in their development?

6. How often do you prioritize maintaining a strong work ethic and discipline in your tennis training to inspire others?

7. How often do you display a positive attitude and resilience in the face of challenges to serve as a role model for perseverance?

8. How often do you actively promote inclusivity and diversity in the tennis community to be a role model for equality?

9. How often do you demonstrate good sportsmanship by congratulating and showing respect for your opponents, win or lose?

10. How often do you engage in self-reflection and personal growth to continually improve as a role model for tennis players?

Check Score, Divide by 10.. Keep score

Why is this important:

Role Models are a must for self-improvement, development and growth because we must have a standard to strive for or compare ourselves with. A role model is someone others look to as a good example. Someone who is worthy of imitation.

 Here are some reasons why its important to have a role model(s)

1) They help provide guidance and support

2) They help inspire you to achieve your dreams

3) They show you what is possible

4) They remind you of your worth

5) They can help you stay motivated during tough times


How To Find A Role Model:

A role model is someone who you admire and look up to. They can be a celebrity, a friend, a family member, or even someone you don’t know. It’s important to have a role model because they can provide motivation, inspiration, and support.

When choosing a role model, it’s important to pick someone who aligns with your values and beliefs. This way, you can be sure that you’re looking up to someone who has the same principles as you do. It’s also important to choose someone who is successful in the area that you want to be successful in. For example, if you want to be a successful writer, find a role model who is a successful writer.

Once you’ve found your role model, there are several ways to get in touch with them. You can follow them on social media, read their books or articles, watch their interviews, or even reach out to them directly (if you know how). The most important thing is to take what you admire about your role model and use it as inspiration in your own life.

Educate: Power point or Whiteboard

Its like having a super-charged conscience. In Recovery, we have sponsors but also Higher Powers that we bestow all the admirable qualities we aspire toward.

They provide the template for what a healthy life-style looks like

They are steadfast and passionate about what they do, showing the benefits of commitment and work ethic

We don’t usually give this much thought, but role models give us our most important life lessons, with their actions having a profound influence over us.

Think back, and you’ll likely remember a time – be it good or bad – when you’ve imitated someone who you look up to, be it a sports star or similar.

The fact that role models are most impressionable on children and young people is at the very core of why they’re so important.

Positive role models influence our actions, often in the form of imitation, and motivate us to try for the standards they have set.

It’s for this reason that role models are important. A good role model can sometimes influence a child or young person even more so than parents can.

Personalize: Nice thing about role models is there are no rules. no life time contracts.. you can love em and leave em  you can give em time-outs.. there's an unwritten pact... you have my undying support up until. I will pull from my Johnny Mac and your Inner Competitor piece

I was once a huge Djokovic fan. Until all the match shenanigans. I don't want to be associated with someone who conducts themselves that way.. the gamesmanship.. Tennis has a losing code.. I admire the most not in how they play but in how they lose.. For there's nothing harder in sport than losing with grace. A hug at the net doesn't wipe the slate clean. I have a strong essay on losing respect for Djokovic as he violated the "Losing Code"

Also recovery: The concept of a sponsor. Find someone who has what you want.  Obviously sobriety was key, but he was well dressed, articulate, knew the material in and out..

Inspire: You too can be a role model/mentor. That is what this whole program is about. Aspire to embody the traits of your role model, all the while becoming one yourself. Be part of the first class/pay it forward/become a mentor

Gandhi: Be The Change you want to see

Action Steps Toward Becoming a Role Model

 

Becoming a better role model in tennis, or any sport, involves a combination of on-court performance and off-court behavior. Here are 10 action steps to help a tennis player become a better role model:

  1. Demonstrate Sportsmanship: Display respect for opponents, officials, and spectators. Win and lose graciously, and avoid negative behavior such as arguing with umpires or opponents.

  2. Work Ethic: Showcase a strong work ethic both on and off the court. Dedication to training and improving your skills sets a positive example for others.

  3. Fair Play: Play by the rules and avoid any form of cheating or gamesmanship. A role model is someone who values fair competition and integrity.

  4. Community Involvement: Engage in community service or outreach programs. Being active in your community demonstrates a commitment to making a positive impact beyond the tennis court.

  5. Healthy Lifestyle: Embrace a healthy lifestyle by maintaining good physical fitness, proper nutrition, and sufficient rest. This promotes well-being and sets an example for aspiring athletes.

  6. Positive Attitude: Cultivate a positive attitude, even in challenging situations. This not only improves your own performance but also influences the atmosphere of the tennis community around you.

  7. Mentorship: Offer support and guidance to younger or less experienced players. Sharing your knowledge and experiences can inspire others and contribute to the growth of the sport.

  8. Effective Communication: Communicate respectfully with teammates, opponents, coaches, and fans. Clear and positive communication helps build a healthy and supportive tennis environment.

  9. Continuous Learning: Be open to learning and improving your skills. A role model understands that growth is a continuous process and demonstrates a willingness to adapt and evolve.

  10. Adherence to Values: Identify and adhere to personal values. This consistency in behavior, both on and off the court, establishes trust and respect among peers and fans.

By embodying these qualities, a tennis player can serve as a positive influence on and off the court, contributing to the development and promotion of the sport and inspiring others to follow suit.

 

Q and A Session. We answer their questions

Look who else thinks this important: 

Serena autograph signing event at Indian Wells

Pictures of kids imitating their favorite players

Current Events on topic: Humorous debate .. Charles Barkley.. I'm no role model

Famous quotes about it:  No shortage online

Additional Resources: Quite a bit out there

Lets RETEST.. 

                                         FIRST BALL TO LAST 10 question retest: 

 

 

SCALE:  1) Never..2) Rarely  3) Sometimes  4) Often 5) Always.....There are no right answers: Just measuring where you are at now as to where you will be after we do the work to chart your progress.

1. How often do you engage in activities that promote sportsmanship and fair play in your tennis matches?

2. How often do you demonstrate leadership qualities on and off the tennis court to become a role model for others?

3. How often do you participate in community service or volunteer work related to tennis to inspire others?

4. How often do you engage in positive and respectful communication with your fellow tennis players to set an example?

5. How often do you make an effort to mentor and support younger or less experienced tennis players in their development?

6. How often do you prioritize maintaining a strong work ethic and discipline in your tennis training to inspire others?

7. How often do you display a positive attitude and resilience in the face of challenges to serve as a role model for perseverance?

8. How often do you actively promote inclusivity and diversity in the tennis community to be a role model for equality?

9. How often do you demonstrate good sportsmanship by congratulating and showing respect for your opponents, win or lose?

10. How often do you engage in self-reflection and personal growth to continually improve as a role model for tennis players?

Check Score, Divide by 10. Check Score, Did we improve in our understanding of what a quality role model embodies

                                                              CONGRATULATIONS!!!

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