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Role Model In Society

  The year was 1993. The moment—a thirty-second Nike commercial directed by Spike Lee—featuring NBA superstar Charles Barkley. Barkley was the reigning league MVP, dominating not just on the court but also the evening news, thanks to a string of embarrassing off-court incidents. A little humility and a promise to do better might have quieted his critics. But not the Chuckster. Instead, he double-dribbled down. On camera, Barkley declared, “I’m not a role model. I’m not paid to be a role model. I’m paid to wreak havoc on the basketball court. Parents should be role models. Just because I dunk a basketball doesn’t mean I should raise your kids.” Red herring aside—no sane person was asking Charles Barkley to raise their children—the commercial ignited a cultural firestorm, sparking a debate that still lingers to this day. What responsibilities do athletes bear in society, what is reasonable to expect of our public figures, and most importantly, precisely what does it mean to be a role...
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Teaching Academy Template

Each Month a new topic.... First month will be Role Model Deep Dive  Each monthly topic   Environment, Journey Role Model etc will have 20 sections... Pretty much in this layout...  I would like to publish them in full at the beginning of each month... Then in the For Today section I can feature a different part of each subject   BUT MY HOPE IS FOR A COLRFUL CREATIVE DESIGN LAYOUT FOR THE MATERIAL USING ALL OF SQUARESPACE TOOLS      LETS GIVE IT A SHOT.... HERE IS THE TEMPLATE    I WILL START ADDING CONTENT ASAP     1) Video Box explainer at top 2) Definition 3) 10 question FBTL Test 4) Role Model in Society    essay ( a space for a paragraph and image then continued reading that goes to another page) 5) Role Model in Tennis      essay (same.. a paragraph or two with image and a continued reading link) 6  My Personal story    (same, image, text, continued reading)  7) Why This I...
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playing hurt/not feeling well

 Video Box of Playing Hurt Event; Playing Hurt or Not Feeling Well Frequency/Intensity/Level of Concern       The Emotions Playing Hurt Brings Competing when you’re hurt or sick brings a variety of emotions: These emotions arise because a tennis court has nowhere to hide—every limitation is exposed.  Fear (of worsening the injury or losing badly) Frustration (at not being able to play your best) Doubt (about whether you can handle the challenge) Resignation (the temptation to give up) Pride (for choosing to fight through adversity) Awareness The first step is honesty with yourself. Awareness means checking in with both your body and your mind before stepping on court. You acknowledge the signals—fatigue, pain, tightness, or illness—without denial or exaggeration. In EQ terms, this is emotional and physical literacy: naming what’s real in the moment. Instead of pretending you’re fine, you admit, “I’m not at 100% today.” This awareness pr...
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you've been choking

Video Box of You've Been Choking Event: You've Been Choking Frequency/Intensity/ Level of Concern Emotions Triggered: Why  is choking so intense? Because its traumatizing tennis to your identity and self-worth. This isn't a hobby, you're deeply invested in the sport numerous ways. The higher the stakes, the more your brain perceives threat, triggering all sorts of emotions, few of them empowering. Recognizing this is crucial because it helps explain why choking feels so overwhelming—and that a quick fix answer to alleviate choking won't be coming to save you anytime soon.   The Emotions That Arise When you’ve been choking, the emotions are intense and layered: Fear of repeating the same mistakes. Shame at letting yourself or others down. Frustration at not playing to your ability. Doubt in your own competence. Hope that this time will be different.   Awareness The first step is recognizing what’s really happening inside you. Choking is not abou...
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in a slump

Video Box for Being In a Slump Event: In a Slump Frequency/Intensity/Level of Concern   Emotions Triggered Slumps stir a heavy mix: These emotions are powerful because they strike not just at our struggling game but at our identity and self-worth. We're in the danger zone. Unmanaged, they erode our love for the game, often leading to an extended break if not worse. But when understood as a normal part of the tennis journey, they can be reframed into motivation and fuel for problem-solving. Few things focus the mind more than a good dose of fear you may be losing something important to you.    doubt : Have I lost it?    frustration:   Why do I keep folding like this? fear “What if this never ends?  shame   Everyone’s going to think I suck       Awareness The first step is noticing—not just that you’re losing matches, but what’s happening inside you while it’s happening. Awareness means observing your self-talk, your physica...
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Playing a huge match

 Video Box: Playing a Huge Match Frequency/Intensity/Level of Concern   Emotions Triggered:   These emotions arise because tennis is personal—there are no teammates to hide behind, no substitutions, no timeouts. You are exposed. That vulnerability is what makes the emotions so strong—and why developing emotional intelligence is essential. You can't eliminate strong emotional responses to break-through situations, we are not robots. But we can learn to harness their energy rather than being controlled by them.  The Emotions of a Huge Match A high-stakes match evokes a cocktail of emotions: Excitement – for the chance to prove yourself. Anxiety – because the stakes feel magnified. Fear – of failure, embarrassment, or letting others down. Hope – that your preparation pays off. Pride – in reaching this moment.   Awareness The first step in emotional intelligence is recognizing what’s happening inside you. A huge match is going to stir your sy...
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hostile environment

 Video Box of Playing In a Hostile Environment Event: Playing away from the friendly confines of your home court Frequency/Intensity/Level of Concern   Emotions That Arise — and Why   Each of these emotions is natural. We often practice in a zoo yet compete in a jungle. Hostile environments present unique emotional challenges.  The key is recognizing your reactions are signals — not verdicts.    Fear: triggered by uncertainty, fear of failure amplified by a hostile crowd. Anger/Frustration: fueled by feeling disrespected or unfairly treated. Anxiety: anticipation of adverse reactions to your mistakes. Doubt: questioning your ability to perform under heightened pressure. Determination/Defiance:  reframing the experience, using every slight as motivation.  Awareness The first step is noticing and naming what’s happening inside you. In a hostile environment, your senses heighten — you hear heckling louder, feel the eyes of the cr...
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